Tuesday, July 21, 2009

Can anyone love us like our mother does?

Lately I've been thinking..If a person is in a relationship which includes the BIG L feelings, they'll say anything..Here's mostly what we can hear from them..

He/she has been good to me..
Nobody will ever love me like he/she does...
He/she take good care of me..
He/she spends a lot on me...
He/she works hard to make me smile..
I will never change him/her for anything...
He/she loves me just like the way I am...
No matter what, he/she won't leave me..
He/she will never change a single thing about me...


And a lot other things...

Just when we think of that, about how romantic,caring, loving our partner can be to us, we forgot that we already have that..ALL of that...ALL of the above....

Did we ever think of how hard our mother had work to raise us up....
She wakes us up in the morning...And before she wakes us up, she'll prepare the things that we are gonna need for the rest of our day..To school, to work(for those who are still staying with their mother),she did not only prepares us..We have sisters and brothers..Whom she had to prepare too.....And she also has our father..she has her own responsibility to him too...


I remember when I started primary school..She will wakes me up in the morning... We have no water heater..So, she has to boil water, prepare it for me, and when she has done that, she'll wake me up...And I still remember she will carry me to the bathroom....She waits for me in front of the bathroom, and she will carry me back to my room, to get me dressed...
It continues until I enter standard 4.....That was just me..how about my other siblings? I have 9 siblings...

This thing she do does not ends until that time...I remember when I was in secondary school, I have to use "Puteri Islam" uniform on Wednesday.At that time, I attended the afternoon session class.I told her that i need to wear that uniform. But it was so late that she said she could not find it for me. I was so pissed off. And then I went to "Sekolah Agama" I get back from "Sekolah Agama" at about 11.00 and there she was..SEWING the uniform for me...She had prepare my lunch too....I did not think much about that situation that time..Maybe I was just a kid...But when it all came to me now..I am so thankful to have a mother like her....I'm sure all of you has your own version of touching moment with your mother....

That story does not end there..I am now 22 years old...and she had done more than the number of days, or hours, or seconds i've spent in this world..From the day she brought me into this world...It is uncountable and unconditional...

If we are in a relationship, we can't afford to make much mistakes...Our partner surely CANNOT tolerate with our mistakes..If we yelled at them, they'll say that we do not respect them... If we do something that we like but he/she don't, they'll talk us to not doing it anymore...If we repeat the same mistake over and over again, he/she will leave us with the reason that we never learn...
They will give reasons like...


I am so tired with his/her excuse...
He/she does not respect me as partner...
I don't want to teach him/her on what to do things anymore...
He/she never listen....
I'm giving up on him/her...
He/she is too stubborn...
He/she is so hard to deal with....
I am his/her partner, not baby sitter....
I am so dissappointed with his/her behavior...
He/she is embarrassing me...


A lot more....

See..those words have never comes out of our mother's mouth..
Just think....


How many times did we yelled at our mother?
How many times did we dissappoint her?
How many times have we been a stubborn child?
How many times did we disobey her?
How many times did we embarrased her?
How many times did we go against what she told us to do?

Who'd wake up in the morning to prepare our meal?
Who'd stay awake at night when we are sick?
Who'd do anything to make sure we get the best thing in the world?
Who'd work anything just to make sure that we live in the most comfortable situation?
Who'd make sure we get everything that we need?

THERE'S ONLY A PERSON WHO WOULD...
Sometimes, we value the things that we shouldn't value much.. Sometimes, we look through things that really need to be appreciated...
Sometimes we did not see, appreciate, value, treasure things that has always been there in front of our eyes, been there in our hands....
I always wish for myself..to never fails to love the one that always have THE BIGGEST, THE STRONGEST,THE MOST UNCONDITIONAL love for me....

love you always mak.....

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